A product created by two people comes with no Instructions. All babies and all parents will have their own experiences. I have to say it’s only been 6days and I can’t say it’s been all so easy specially when my body is recovering. All I can say is if you do it with love you can get pass it all. I’m encouraging for parents to really work together, together or not. It’s not easy for two people to mange I can’t imagine doing it alone. The best thing any parent can do for their child is work together.