Trust me, I know. It's the #1 reason I started my newest blog. After spending a lifetime trying to please others, I realized on day (while watching the Kardashians oddly enough) that I had no clue who I really was, what I wanted, or what I hoped to be. Fear definitely held me hostage from discovering all that. Fear of disappointing others, fear of disapproval, fear of being laughed at, fear of being vulnerable... Fear of being real. But no more. Since that moment of realization (back in Oct), I've been making small steps into being more honest with myself & others. "No" is still a little hard for me to say, but it doesn't stop me from saying it when I have to. Wow, I honestly didn't intend to write any of this when I started typing °°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°° #peoplepleaser #learningtosayno #fear #effyourbeautystandards #honormycurves #bodypositivity #bodypositive #bodyconfidence #plussizeblogger #bodyposi #plusisequal #plussize #selfmotivation #loveyourself #beyoutiful #psootd
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Today is my Mums birthday. I don’t know if she understands what the fuss is for or that today marks 81 years of being the kindest soul I know. We have battled through strokes, bowel problems, lumps and bumps, losing my dad and the ill health that old age inevitably brings but dementia and Alzheimer’s are our hardest battle to date. Strokes alter personality but dementia steals memories. That’s something I’m finding really hard to accept. Watching Mums gradual decline has really made me realise just how important it is to take the time to appreciate the small things, really see the positives in every day. To make memories, go on adventures and worry less about other people’s opinions. To live my life, be happy and not be held back by my fears and insecurities. To make sure I’m in the photos of precious family moments; despite how I feel about my appearance because my kids aren’t looking for my flaws they just see me. Mum always says you never stop learning and that hard times are character building opportunities! Sometimes, you have to live the lesson to really understand it. On her birthday I’m thankful she’s still here to love and teach our family what life and love is really all about.
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Oh heyyyy Friday, let's do a giveaway! ✨ Today is the start of 5 Fridays of Giveaways on my page, and I'm super excited! First up is this adorable boudoir bundle - one lucky girl will receive a cute tee + mug from @mugsbymugs, a free bag from @bootaybag_, and 5 prints (4x6) from a boudoir session*. Here's what you have to do in order to win: ☝🏼 Like this photo ✌🏼Follow @joelleelizabethphotography, @mugsbymugs, and @bootaybag_ 🤟🏼Tag 3 friends (more for extra entries) 🖖🏼Book a boudoir session to receive 5 bonus entries!** ---- Winner will be announced on Monday! 💕 *You will only receive prints if you book a boudoir session ** If you have already booked a boudoir session with me, these bonus entries will automatically be applied to you - just complete the other steps! 😘
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