Most men never experience their woman's full freakiness, because she needs to trust him completely in order to bless him with her full potential. And I don't mean, standard freakinessI'm talking about "where TF she learn that from" freakiness The kind of ish that will have you mad that she was soooo fukin good Gentlemen(have a ) Your woman sees through your bsand if you could manage to curve your fuckboiness consistently. She'll free herself to bust it open for #zaddy in ways you didn't even knew existed #Facts#ShesDyingToo#YouJustGottaEarnIt#RealTalk#GrownWomanIsh the amazing @alphachanneling
As an artiste it takes alot of energy and investment to present a particular image. No one sees the process of preparation. No one probably even cares once its pleasing to their eyes. After sewing this dress an hour before an interview @slam1005fm doing my own hair and makeup and then jumping into a maxi headed to town. Tears in my eyes. Feeling exhausted and embarrassed at the same time for having on all these bright clothes I thought to myself is this even worth it? To present music that may or may not get played. To be a part of an industry of fake ppl and friends and family who wudnt even call to check up on you but will gladly pose in a pic with u once u looking good next to them. As if performing infront of a crowd isn't nerve wrecking enough. But you know wat I pray for guidance everyday. And I pray for god to send the right ppl my way. Ive met some really good hearted ppl out here. Every year gets better. So I not even worried. #surviving#realtalk#vlogcomingsoon#aspiring#talented#blessed#onlyupward#babysteps#myownjourney
Friendly reminder that your hands don't necessarily have to be clean before you point your finger at another human being.
But first, let me explain.
I'm not saying that we're free to judge people left and right, nor am I saying that we should ignore the importance of whatever internal work we must face within ourselves.
You always have the right to explain to others (in a productive way) how their actions effect you. Even if you are not perfect yourself. Because no one is perfect. No one has a completely clean hand in anything (for the most part).
So if you find yourself sticking up for a little piece of personal justice and someone has the nerve to bring up your shortcomings in response, all they're really saying is that they can't accept responsibility for their actions and it's easier to thwart the blame back onto you.
You can be dirty as fuck, and still possess the right to tell someone what they're doing is out of line.
As an aside, I am not trying to promote or condone gaslighting. Don't go poking at a lion and blame it when you get bit.
The true meaning behind my point is that if you feel sticking up for yourself is necessary- DO IT. Regardless of wherever you came from, or whatever you've done wrong in the past.
Don't let people use "past" you as an excuse to not accept accountability for their "current" selves.