If you meet people and end up broken-hearted over and over again because after some hookups your date always seems to lose your number somehow or seems to have disappeared from this earth… TRY THIS on your next 1st date: LISTEN! Don’t be disappointed. I know you expected something woo-woo like, not something as "simple" as listening, BUT really I mean it. LISTEN and pay attention to his/her ACTIONS -> Because: on an effing 1st date everyone is nice. EVERYONE!
If your date happens to be attractive as well - you’re usually sold on that person.
And why not.
Your date is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G, nice, kind, gooooooood looking - jackpot, right?
Please do yourself a favor and listen to what the person is saying - play Sherlock Holmes - I do not mean in a creepy way questioning everything your date is saying. No. Be yourself. BUT without the pink glasses on -> don’t buy everything. Pay attention to what your date is saying about her/his parents - his/her mum is it something nice? Is it respectful?? If your date keeps talking about other people in an unrespectful way - that person will be unrespectful to YOU as well. Period.
I hope you get this. Everyone is nice on a first date!
Even if your date starts to speak about his/her ex ("whaaat?) LISTEN!! This is so insightful - how does your date speak about her/his ex? This person will talk about you in the exact same way …
You see listening is actually pretty cool, because when you find out already on a first date that your handsome hottie does not share the same values as you do as for example respect, or kindness you don’t have to waste your time and feelings ending up broken-hearted again while finding out later that this person is actually not as nice as that person you met on the 1st date. Listen carefully!